from your pictures it doesn't look like it should be totaled. looks like you'll need a new hatch, rear quarter panel, rear bumper and a lot of time vaccuming out all the glass. unless there is some frame damage i wouldn't think the cost would approach near what the value of the car is. but you never know what the insurance company might say. anyway, good luck and keep us posted.
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