How do I go about it?
I'll not belong to a forum where the administration of threads doesn't, in my opinion, doesn't follow the TOS that I read when I paid to join.
I'll not belong to a forum where an administrator (at one time) laughs and encourages members of this forum to go join another car forum and disrupt it yet deletes threads that have calmly discussed the appropriatness of administrating at two competing sites simply, IMO, because the administrator here has a vested interest in the site in question.
In other words, I can, apparently, post a thread about going over to rip up a new site and as long as it doesn't belong to the administrator here, it would be OK. Certainly, it's been done in the past.
As a lot of countries run by bad governments do, rewrite history to put them in a better light, discussion threads here have been deleted.
So, having explained my reasoning, how do I pursue some kind of refund?
A veteran is someone who, at one point in their life, wrote a blank check made payable to "The United States of America," for an amount of "up to and including my life."