Well, here's the answer anyway...
Since I don't trust dealers; almost any of them... I took the vehicle to a guy that does
only alignments. Two small adjustments; too much air in the right front tire; that part I knew
about but I didn't think it could be the main cause of my issue. Secondly some of the toe values
were a bit too toe-out in the front...not much and barely out of spec only on one. He adjusted that
and the air and the vehicle drives night and day better. So having spent over $40k on a vehicle and scared to
death that I wouldn't ever be satisfied with how it drove, my prayers were literally answered.
To be fair, I have nothing against the service center of the dealer where I bought it and at
some point I'll give them the chance to be fair, but I'm not expecting much. The sales dept is an entirely
different matter. I only really wanted this alignment guy to check it and if it were out of spec, I'd have the
dealer fix it. But he said, hey, I'll adjust it in two seconds. He charged me $20 and I gave
him $40 and my never-ending gratitude as I also give to God first for answering my prayers for the alignment
to be fixed. Yes, prayers do many times get answered. Everybody's happy.