I have noticed a few different threads on this type of issue. I have an 02 RL and yesterday morning the car would not start. It turns over and initially started right up as normal but immediately died, and now will not start. It is like it is not getting any fuel. I let it sit all day and then when I got home from work tried it again. It fired right up and ran. Late last night went to leave and bam will not start again. This morning same thing. So I read through all I could find and they all say the Main Relay is known to go out. So I pulled it and it looks ok. It clicks 3 times during the starting process which I read somewhere means it should be ok. What do I check now. I am thinking fuel filter first, then fuel pump. I am hard of hearing so I can not hear if the fuel pump is humming when I turn the key on or not. What should I listen for? And what should I try next?