Mdx 2001 Car turning on issues

We change battery worked for like 1 week 1/2 then again wont start, then fuel pump was changed, worked for a whole day and next day again wont start. after 2 weeks of trying to figure what's wrong with it, we changed the fuse (15) for fuel pump. worked for about 3 days 4th day car warmed up fine but when pulling out of drive way car shakes and shuts off on drive mode. had to wait for 30 mins to try again to turn on. got home. okay , well i had to go out again to do some earns, car turned on fine. on a 15 mins drive car shakes and shuts off on a stop red light. what i notices is at the 3 times my car wont turn on is when i fill it up full from gas station. un sure what is causes this. Pleas help. is it electrical issues?started in Jan.2023. Cars shakes and shuts off on drive mode or wont turn on when i turn key. had 2 use tow trucks and just leave car alone cause mechanics cant find issues